Resources in the Community

Your guide to support, safety, and empowerment.

At Revival Haven, we’re dedicated to connecting you with the tools, information, and services you need to heal, grow, and thrive. Whether you’re seeking immediate assistance or long-term support, these resources are here to help.

Immediate Help

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
• Website: Domestic Violence Support | National Domestic Violence Hotline 
• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
• 911: In an emergency, call 911 immediately.

Local Resource: Turning Point of Lehigh Valley

• 24 Hour Helpline:  610-437-3369 
• Services: Emergency shelter, legal advocacy, and supportive counseling for individuals experiencing domestic abuse.
• Website: www.turningpointlv.org

• Create a Safety Plan: A guide to preparing a safe exit.
• Digital Safety Tips: How to securely seek help online.
• Packing a Go Bag: Essential items to have ready.

Please note: It’s essential not to share too many details of your safety plan with anyone who might alert the person abusing you. Reach out to Revival Haven staff for further guidance on crafting a personalized plan that minimizes risk.

If you are in immediate danger, call 911 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).

•  Turning Point of Lehigh Valley
• National Domestic Violence Hotline
• Love Is Respect (for teens and young adults)
• PA Coalition Against Domestic Violence

At Revival Haven, we believe that education is vital in raising awareness and providing support. Below are essential resources to help you better understand domestic abuse, coercive control, and how to support those affected.

1. What is Coercive Control?
   Coercive control is a pattern of behaviors used to control and dominate a partner. It can be subtle and hard to recognize, but it’s a form of abuse that isolates, manipulates, and controls the victim's every move.
2. Warning Signs of Domestic Abuse
   Domestic abuse isn't always obvious. It may not involve physical violence but can include emotional, financial, or psychological control. It's important to recognize the signs early.
3. Red Flags of an Abusive Relationship
   Knowing the red flags of abuse can help you identify dangerous patterns before they escalate. Red flags include extreme jealousy, constant criticism, or controlling behavior.
4. But He Doesn't Hit Me – Forms of Abuse Beyond Physical Violence
   Abuse isn't limited to physical violence. Emotional, verbal, financial, and psychological abuse are just as damaging. Recognizing these forms of abuse is key to understanding how someone might be harmed.
5. The Cycle of Abuse
   The cycle of abuse involves a repeating pattern of tension-building, explosion, and reconciliation. Understanding this cycle can help break the pattern of abuse and offer clarity on why leaving an abusive relationship is so difficult.
6. How to Support Someone Who is Being Abused
   If you know someone experiencing abuse, it's important to offer support in a way that is safe for them. Listen, believe, and help them access resources to develop a safety plan.
7. Resources for Legal Help and Protection Orders
   In some situations, survivors may need legal help or protection from further abuse. Learn about how to obtain a restraining order and other legal resources available for those experiencing abuse.
8. Understanding Gaslighting in Abusive Relationships
   Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic used to make someone question their reality. It’s a form of emotional abuse often seen in toxic relationships.
   

By exploring these resources, you can become more informed and empowered to help break the cycle of abuse. If you or someone you know is in danger, please reach out to Revival Haven or another trusted support service to create a safety plan and access critical resources.

Victims of domestic violence and other crimes in Pennsylvania can access a network of experienced licensed attorneys for free and credible legal information, resources, and referrals for help navigating a variety of civil legal matters including domestic and sexual violence, divorce, custody, immigration, support cases, and more. Attorneys are available Monday through Friday, from 9:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m. to answer legal questions and provide legal information, resources and referrals via phone, chat, or email.

www.PaSafeLaw.org or call at 1-833-727-2335

The Lawyer Referral Service provides a much-needed opportunity for individuals to obtain legal advice for a modest fee. On request, the Lawyer Referral Service office will make an appointment for participating clients with a lawyer who is a member of the Lawyer Referral Service of Lehigh or Northampton County.

For a half-hour consultation with an attorney, the cost paid to the Lawyer Referral Service is $35.00 (as of 1/1/19). If more legal work is needed, this can be arranged at a cost agreed upon by the client and the attorney who does the work.

Bar Association of Lehigh County  or call at (610) 433-7094

Northampton County Bar Association  or call at (610) 258-6333

At Revival Haven, our advocates are not attorneys. While we cannot provide legal advice or tell you what to do, we are here to offer information, resources, referrals, and support services to help you navigate these challenging processes.

We understand how overwhelming custody, divorce, and support cases can be, especially for those impacted by domestic abuse. Although we are unable to assist with the filing of court paperwork, we can connect you with trusted legal resources and advocacy services that specialize in these matters.

At Revival Haven, we understand the importance of safety and peace of mind for survivors of domestic abuse. If you are concerned about an offender’s status, Pennsylvania offers services to keep you informed:

If the offender is in a county jail, you can receive notifications about their movements, such as:

• When the offender is released from jail
• If the offender escapes
• If the offender is transferred to another location

To register, visit www.vinelink.com.

1. Physical Injuries: Unexplained bruises, cuts, or injuries that the person tries to hide.
2. Isolation: Being cut off from friends, family, or social support.
3. Jealousy/Control: Excessive monitoring of activities, who you speak to, or where you go.
4. Verbal Abuse: Demeaning or belittling language aimed at lowering self-esteem.
5. Financial Control: Limiting access to money or financial independence.
6. Threats of Harm: Threatening violence or harm to the person or loved ones.

(Source: National Domestic Violence Hotline, Women's Aid)

1. Constant Monitoring: Tracking your movements or online activity without consent.
2. Gaslighting: Making you question your memory or reality to confuse you.
3. Limiting Information: Controlling access to news, the internet, or outside support.
4. Undermining Confidence: Criticizing or belittling you to make you feel helpless or dependent.
5. Using Children to Manipulate: Threatening to take children away or using them to control you.

(Source: Refuge, National Coalition Against Domestic Violence)

If you or someone you know is experiencing any of these signs, help is available. Please reach out to resources such as the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).